You have every right to do whatever you want to especially in regards to sex. However, I do want to make sure that you are seeing a hook up for what it is. I decided to break down a few of these signs that you need to take notice of immediately. He creates time to see you, only when he wants to and it always involves sex. She started counselling because of her anxiety around a relationship. She shared how frustrated she was that the guy she was involved with only reached out to her when it was convenient for him. She kept on inviting him to hang out, but it rarely happened. She also was upset that all he wanted to do was have sex. She continued asking him to go on dates and meet her friends. Joy began to see that she was ignoring his actions and what he was telling her.

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1. You hook up every time you see each other.
Updated: August 8, References. Finding out a guy is using you for sex can be painful, but it's also the first step in leaving a toxic relationship behind and moving on to better things. If you think a guy you like is using you, there are some behaviors and patterns you can look out for that will help confirm your suspicion. If you're worried a guy is using you for sex, pay attention to when he texts or calls you — if it's only late at night, it could be a sign that he's just looking for sex. Be skeptical if he only wants to hang out when you're hooking up and if he's quick to leave when you're finished. Ask yourself how much you know about his friends and personal life.
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I have definitely been used for sex before. We don't need to have deeply intimate bonds based on actual romantic feelings with everyone. Women have libidos, too, and sometimes, we just want to get laid. But if you're looking for something more substantial, then it really sucks when you come to the conclusion that you're just his booty call.
He only texts you after 1 a. It's a scientific fact that all booty calls happen after 1 a. All those cars you see driving around after ? People out in the streets past 1? They're all on their way to a booty call. He gets frustrated when you invite him over to watch a movie and actually just want to watch a movie.