Thankfully, trailblazers like Janet Jackson and Madonna and newcomers like CupcakKe and Halsey have all done their part in destigmatizing the female desire for sex. Madonna's been pushing the envelope since she burst onto the scene, a trailblazer for women expressing their sexuality through music. Her earlier hits were suitably sexy, but she's still making new music as well. Check out: "How Many Licks? Britney once pleaded with her lover to "hit me, baby, one more time" with her debut single, but she came into her own with a song all about touching herself in the most intimate of ways. Never one to shy away from the desires that some might consider "vulgar," CupcaKKe is a queen who raps bluntly and explicitly about sex, be it oral or otherwise. In fact, she was even inspired to write it thanks to ogling men in a porno mag. Queen B can be a radiant beauty and benevolent role model, but that doesn't mean she can't enjoy sex.
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If you want to drive your man wild in the bedroom we've got the tips for you. You've heard of little things called erogenous zones before, but do you know where they are on a man's body? Some of them are obvious - if you're not touching those areas you're definitely doing it wrong - but some of them may surprise you. Kissing boosts levels of dopamine in the brain, a neurotransmitter that boosts desire and the reward system in the brain. If you've ever had someone play with your ears and liked it, then it makes sense your man would like it too. Instead try sucking, licking, cupping or gently squeezing them, sex coach Charlie Glickman suggests. And the nape of his neck in the best place to focus, according to a study published in the journal Ergonomics. In a recent survey for the journal Cortex, men admitted that nipples were one of their top spots for stimulation.
Good sex matters. Your fantasy life is just your fantasy life, until and unless you choose to make it into more. Here, thanks to recent studies , research , and women sharing their brilliant personal insights , are 25 of the most common sexual fantasies women have—and some advice on how to bring them to life.
Helena Lorimer February 28, This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. But why is touching so important? Because the more time, effort and expertise you put into touching her the way she likes, the better arousal she will achieve! So, put your thinking cap on and get ready to learn all about her erogenous zones, aka: the spots that cause her immense satisfaction and sexual stimulation. Take notes, copy and paste it, print it out — heck, you can even tape it to your wall if you have to! An erogenous zone is a spot on the body, male or female, that has heightened sensitivity.